All posts by Miranda Hassett

Sermon, October 6

This was a tough week to figure out what to preach on! There’s a lot of strange and difficult stuff here. There’s beginning of the book of Job – a piece of folklore probably much older than the rest of the book, in which an unknown author living perhaps 500 years before Jesus takes this darkly funny story of God allowing Satan to torment someone to prove his piety, and uses it as the jumping-off point for a staggeringly profound and unique work of ancient theology written completely in dialogic poetry. I’ll talk more about Job next week, I promise! 

Then there’s the first bit of the letter to the Hebrews, which is interestingly preoccupied by the relationships among Jesus, the angels, and humanity. The project of Hebrews – which is really more of a sermon or theological essay than a letter – is to explore the meaning of Jesus’ death on the cross through the ritual practices of worship at the Great Temple in Jerusalem. It’s interesting stuff but requires a lot of context to follow, and we are not its intended audience. It was likely written for early Jewish Christians and seekers who were trying to fit Jesus into their existing religious framework. 

There’s plenty of meat there for a sermon. But then… there’s this Gospel. Let me tell you, the temptation to just edit out the divorce talk and focus on the little children is strong! But this week I read a short commentary that convinced me to talk about the whole thing. The commentary – on the Working Preacher website – was written by Phil Ruge-Jones, who’s a Lutheran pastor in Eau Claire and a Biblical storyteller. 

Phil’s specialty as a Biblical storyteller is the Gospel of Mark. He has memorized and told the entire Gospel – there are videos online. That commitment to Mark’s voice and Mark’s witness gives Phil a valuable lens on how any given passage fits into Jesus’ overall message as Mark understands it. 

In his commentary, Pastor Phil names the elephant in room immediately. He says, “Beware this week. As soon as you read the word ‘divorce’ aloud, a whole sermon will appear in people’s heads. Some will hear… sermons that were launched at them or someone they loved… Others will conjure up [judgment] based on this single word.” 

This is exactly why it’s tempting to skip these verses! I know that talking about divorce stirs up a lot of stuff for a lot of people. Pain, shame, defensiveness, judgment, fear, and more. I know people for whom divorce has been liberation, even salvation. I know people for whom divorce has been a bitter loss, a deep wound. And many experiences of divorce are complex mixtures of hurt and healing, grief and relief. Regardless of folks’ experiences: NOBODY wants me to try to preach about divorce. 

So let’s step back from divorce to the setting for this passage. Pastor Phil notes, “Our lectionary still has us in the section of Mark where Jesus is leading the disciples toward Jerusalem. He is also trying to help the disciples find their way into what God desires. Interestingly, he is not calling them to acts of spiritual prowess. Rather, he is asking them to live well in their common human condition and in such mundane realities as family, wealth, and their gathered community. Jesus has consistently asked them to use what they have in service of those who are most vulnerable: children, the poor, those denied status.”

Three weeks ago, in our Gospel, in Mark chapter 8, we heard Jesus say, What good does it do anyone to gain the whole world and lose their soul? Two weeks ago, in chapter 9, we heard Jesus rebuke the disciples for arguing about who’s the greatest, saying, “Whoever wants to be first must be last of all and servant of all,” and reminding them that greatness looks like welcoming those who are unimportant by the world’s standards. 

Last Sunday, still in Mark 9, we heard Jesus caution the disciples against being too eager to say who’s in and who’s out – “Whoever isn’t against us is for us!” And urging his followers to stay salty. 

In today’s text, the beginning of chapter 10, he’s preaching again, and some Pharisees have a question for him. Jesus and the Pharisees had a lot in common!  They were both interested in calling ordinary people into renewed relationship with God. They clashed a lot because of the overlap in their missions. And it’s helpful for us to understand that arguing about how to interpret and apply Scripture is a really core practice in Judaism, past and present. For example: The Talmud, a core source of Jewish law and theology, consists of a block of Scripture surrounded on the page by the commentary of generations of rabbis, debating with each other about what the text means. I think we tend to read these encounters in the Gospels as hostile when this kind of religious sparring was very normal. 

I’m not sure why the Pharisees ask Jesus about divorce. Maybe it’s because they’ve gotten mixed messages about whether he’s really strict or really lenient in his teaching – he is kinda both! – so they’re trying to suss it out. Maybe it’s because divorce is a difficult, tender issue, and they want to see if they can corner him into saying something awkward that will upset people. 

What Jesus does is actually really interesting. He knows the Law perfectly well; he knows that Moses, the great interpreter of God’s laws for God’s people, allowed for divorce. But, Pastor Phil writes, “Jesus relativizes the law of God in light of the story of God. (Repeat.) Jesus argues that God’s creational desire for integrity in our relationships remains. While Moses might have made allowances in some cases, this does not nullify God’s original intent.”

Jesus says: the Law is secondary to God’s intentions for humanity and creation. God’s underlying purpose and desire for the cosmos is for right relationship, mutual flourishing and joy – whether that’s between nations and peoples, between humanity and the non-human created order, between members of a household or partners in a marriage. 

For all kinds of reasons: right relationship and mutual flourishing often fail, and so, God through Moses permitted divorce, among other concessions. But that doesn’t change what God wants for us: wholeness together, for many different togethers. 

One of the reasons mutual flourishing often fails is the development of social structures that give some power over others, because of wealth, anatomy, skin color, etcetera. Pastor Phil notes something about the dialogue in today’s Gospel that I had never noticed: what Jesus does with the pronouns. The Pharisees want to keep their question abstract, theoretical. They ask, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife?” They say, “Moses allowed a man to write a certificate of dismissal and to divorce her.”

Jesus is having none of it. He says, “What did Moses command you?” He says, “Because of your hardness of heart [Moses] wrote this commandment for you.” He refuses to let this be abstract. In Judaism at the time, a man could divorce a woman, but not the reverse. Jesus’ questioners are men.

So Jesus is saying: Moses made an allowance for divorce because dudes like you didn’t want to commit to love and to cherish, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, until you are parted by death. You want to be able to nope out if you start to find her annoying or boring or burdensome, or just spot someone you like better….  

And that’s cruel, because the way things work here and now, she has no protection and no livelihood, outside of a father or husband. So: Yeah, divorce is legal, because some of you are jerks. That’s a paraphrase and expansion of what Jesus says, but I think it’s the gist. 

Then Jesus goes home, and talks more with his disciples. So maybe this next scene with the little children is the next morning – or maybe it’s a thing that happened a lot, and this passage records what Jesus had to say about it. There’s no obvious connection with the divorce conversation… but then again, maybe there is. A social system in which women are often made vulnerable is also a social system in which children are often made vulnerable – true in Jesus’ time, true today. WayForward Resources, our local food pantry and resource center, regularly reminds us of the high numbers of children among their clients. And I think that, in both parts of this text, Mark wants us to hear Jesus’ insistence that his way is a way that cares for and honors those seen as less important, or pushed to the edges.

When Jesus holds up little children – literally and metaphorically – and says things like, “Whoever welcomes a little child in my name welcomes me,” and “Whoever does not receive the kingdom of God as a little child will never enter it,” he is profoundly challenging a social order in which adult men made most of the decisions affecting the welfare of others. Pastor Phil writes, “Marriage, as well as relationships between adults and children…, are proposed as spheres where we can live toward the other in the promise of our divine image.” 

It’s an election year, beloveds. I know that’s on many of our hearts and minds. I don’t talk about it a lot when I’m standing up here. I think it’s more important for us to pray through this season together, than for you to hear me hold forth about what I think. 

But our way of faith does have some big things to say, in seasons like this. And this year, here we are in our Sunday readings, deep in these chapters of Mark’s Gospel where Jesus keeps talking about the fact that wealth and power don’t mean you’re God’s favorite. About the ways our hardness of heart have distorted God’s intentions for our common life. About mercy, justice, love of neighbor, as the path to true greatness. About how a community that seeks to follow Jesus needs to look to those often pushed to the edges, and call them to the center, to care for them and learn from them. About how we can continue to live toward the other, toward one another, in the promise of our divine image. 

Jesus didn’t live in a democracy. But for us, using our votes and voices as citizens is a really important way we can practice our faith and love our neighbors. Who’s vulnerable in our world today? Where does your faith inform – or challenge – your opinions and convictions on the big issues in the public square? How does this election season call you as a person of faith, as a follower of Jesus, to show up and speak up?

May God guard us, guide us, and empower us, for the living of these days. Amen. 

Phil Ruge-Jones’s commentary on this Gospel: 

https://www.workingpreacher.org/commentaries/revised-common-lectionary/ordinary-27-2/commentary-on-mark-102-16-6

Homily, Sunday, Sept. 29

Jesus said to his friends, “Salt is good; but if salt loses its saltiness, how will it become salty again? Keep salt in yourselves and keep peace with each other.”

Let’s wonder together about what that might mean! 

What is salt? ….

Jesus says salt is good. I wonder why! 

Do YOU think salt is good? … 

How do you use salt at your house?

Do you know about any other ways to use salt?

– Melting ice… 

Do you know what it means to dissolve salt in water? …

Anybody ever gargle with salt water when you have a sore throat or a canker sore? … 

Or use a saline spray or saline drops for their nose or their eyes? 

People have been using salt to clean things and care for wounds, for thousands and thousands of years. And now that we have science to study how salt works, it turns out they were right! Salt kills a lot of bacteria. It sucks the water out of their cells so they shrivel up and die!!

Salt doesn’t work on all bacteria or other kinds of tiny things that can make us sick. So we have more effective cleaners, now. 

But people still use saline solution – which means, salt dissolved in water – for some things, like our noses and eyes and mouths, because it’s pretty gentle for our bodies. 

(Please don’t just mix salt and water and put it up your nose! Saline solution from the store is clean and safe to use.) 

 

Does anybody like pickles?

Does anybody like bacon? 

How about cheese? …

Besides taking care of our bodies, another way salt is useful is in preserving food! 

Pickles and cheese and bacon, or salted meat in general, are very old and very important. 

Think about people living a long, long, long time ago, without refrigerators or stoves or electricity at all. 

People living in warm places where food can go bad quickly.

What happens when food goes bad?…

  • It can get gross so you don’t want to eat it
  • It could make you sick if you do eat it

So for people living long, long ago: If you milk your goat, or you kill a chicken, or you pick some vegetables, you have to use them RIGHT AWAY… 

Or you have to find a way to preserve them, to do something to the food so it doesn’t go bad quickly. 

Long, long, long ago, people started to figure out some ways to do that. And salt is a really important tool. 

It kills bacteria so it helps preserve foods, and it tastes good, too. 

Pickling is a way of making vegetables last a long time. 

Salt-curing meat is a way to make meat last a long time. 

Cheese is a way to make milk last a long time. 

And all of those processes use salt. A lot of salt!

Salt really changed human history, because our long, long, long ago ancestors could save food. They could spend less time looking for food. They could travel farther. They could trade their pickles and cheese with other groups, and used those connections to learn and share. 

Where does salt come from? … 

(The ocean, or rock salt that can be mined in certain places.) 

  • Seeing salt gatherers in Tanzania

Today it’s easy to get salt. You can even get all kinds of fancy salt. 

But in those long, long, long ago times, salt was hard to get and pretty special and valuable. 

Salt was sometimes used as a kind of money. 

In some times and places salt has even been as valuable as gold!

Cities and nations that had access to salt could get really rich. 

In my research, everything I looked at said that salt was actually REALLY REALLY important for the development of human civilization around the world! 

Because salt was so important in real life, it also became an important symbol. 

Have you noticed how when something is really important to people, they start to stick ideas to it? 

One idea that people stuck to salt was the idea of something lasting forever. 

Because salt was good for preserving food, in some cultures it started to be a symbol of permanence, of eternity. 

Another idea that people stuck to salt was the idea of purification.

That’s like making something clean, but in a more symbolic way. 

Because salt was good for cleaning wounds, in some cultures it started to be seen as having the power to drive out bad energy or evil spirits, or for healing the part of us that isn’t our bodies, after somebody has done or experienced something bad. 

In some churches, when somebody is baptized, they give them a tiny bit of salt, as a symbol of purity… 

And I have heard of people, even Episcopalians!, using salt to help purify a space where something bad happened. 

So: Salt has a lot of uses, and a lot of meanings – a lot of ideas stuck to it!

Let’s look back at what Jesus says. 

Salt is good.

Now we know a lot of different ways salt is good, right? …

If salt loses its saltiness, how will it become salty again? 

How could salt lose its saltiness? In science classes we learn that salt – the kind we use every day – is made of two elements, sodium and chlorine. You can’t really un-salt salt. 

But in those long-ago times, people weren’t getting salt from the grocery store. In Judea their salt probably came from seawater, because the coast was nearby. 

So that salt might have other stuff in it – other chemicals, a little grit, a little gunk. If that salt got wet, the actual salt might dissolve into the water and flow away, and leave that other stuff behind. That would be your not-so-salty salt, that’s not good for much anymore. 

Then Jesus says, 

Keep salt in yourselves and keep peace with each other.

This is from the gospel of Mark, the earliest version of the story of Jesus. Another version of the story, Matthew, has Jesus say this to his friends and followers: You are the salt of the land.  (5:13)

Start popcorn circulating??? 

I wonder what Jesus means by, Keep salt in yourselves! 

I wonder what Jesus means by, You are the salt of the land! 

We live 2000 years later, but we are friends and followers of Jesus, too. When he says these things, he’s talking to us.  

Why does Jesus want us to be salty? What does that mean?? 

Well, there are those ideas that got stuck to salt. 

Maybe Jesus wants us to help preserve the world, like salt preserves food. 

We could be people who help fight decay and keep things whole and good. 

Maybe Jesus wants us to help purify the world, like salt cleaning wounds. 

We could be people who look for the hurt places, and try to help heal and restore… and we could look for what’s causing hurt and harm, and fight to change those things. 

Either of those could make sense. Even both of them. 

Symbols can mean lots of things at the same time.

But I think there might be one more thing.

Because I think Jesus is talking about food and flavor.

Jesus liked food. People used to get mad at him because he enjoyed a good meal. 

I am sending around some popcorn. 

One kind has salt, and one kind doesn’t have salt. 

Which one do you like better?… 

How would you describe the difference? … 

The salty popcorn tastes brighter, to me. It makes my mouth pay attention. It’s more interesting and more satisfying to eat. 

With the unsalted popcorn I don’t think I’d eat very much. It’s kind of boring. 

(Some people have to eat less salt for health reasons!) 

I wonder if, together, we can be people who do for the world what that salt does for the popcorn. Make it a better, brighter place, that’s more fun and interesting and alive. 

Now, the word salty means something in slang today. What does it mean to be salty? …

(Grumpy, sassy…) 

I wonder if sometimes we have to be that kind of salty for Jesus, too!

Last weekend we went to see a show by a group called Bread and Puppet Theater. They use big cardboard puppets to make art about the problems and possibilities of the world. 

Phil and Iona got to help with the show, that was cool!

In one act, the leader shared a quote from the head of Amnesty International, a global human rights organization. 

She said: “We are really as close to the abyss as we have ever been.”  We are really as close to the abyss as we have ever been.

That means: we live in strange, scary times. 

Like Jesus lived in strange, scary times. 

Like Esther lived in strange, scary times.

But Esther had an important role to play, a job to do, in times like that, and maybe we do too. 

The Bread and Puppet performers showed us some Anti-Abyss Calisthenics – that means exercises!

And I want to show you a couple of them. 

Because I think they are also about ways to be salty for Jesus.

This is the first one: “Hey!” 

Like you just saw something bad happen and you’re going to SPEAK UP about it!… 

Let’s try it!… 

And this is another Anti-Abyss exercise: Aaaah.

They didn’t explain things at the performance, they just showed us and let us think about it. 

I think this is a movement about finding our goodness, and sharing it with others. Finding our peace, and sharing it. Finding our hope, and sharing it. 

So let’s practice those again:  

Hey!

Aaaah. 

Keep salt in yourselves, friends! Be the salt of the land! 

Amen. 

Sermon, Sept. 15

My sermon was written as an outline this week so this version is a little sketchy, but you get the idea! 

Proverbs, the Biblical book: A collection of proverbs – sayings about life and how to live it – from the ancient Near East. There are six or more sets or sections within the book, anthologized in the time of Exile or even later. Focus on teaching and instruction. Fundamentally pragmatic sense of wisdom as something that helps you understand self and others, make good choices, and live a better life. To the extent that God is present, mostly as the originator and maintainer of a system in which good things happen to good people and bad things happen to bad people… even if it sometimes takes a while. 

Artfully written and poetic. Mostly couplets, two-line forms. Lots of evocative metaphors. An example: “Bread got through fraud is sweet to a man, but in the end it fills his mouth with gravel” (20:17) Using this image to say that what you get dishonestly may seem great at first, but…! 

Some are shrewd and funny; some offer genuine insight. Many boil down to, “Work hard and make good choices,” which I guess is the kind of thing parents and grandparents have always told children and grandchildren? 

Chapters 10 to 22 claim to be the wisdom of King Solomon, in particular – some of the 3000 proverbs that he composed, according to 1 Kings.

Proverbs, the thing: A proverb is a short saying that condenses some general truth, guidance, or advice. Wisdom distilled into something portable and concise. 

These past couple of weeks I’ve been noticing how many proverbs circulate in my household and our world! We learn them from our parents. A few from my family of origin: Pretty is as pretty does. That’s why God makes Fords and Chevys…  We learn them from our friends. I’m particularly fond of “Clear is kind,” from Cecilie B… We pick them up from the culture. “The morning is wiser than the evening” – Regina Spektor song.

But! It’s not that simple. Just because something makes a snappy saying doesn’t mean it’s true or wise. “God won’t give you anything you can’t handle” is one that particularly annoys me. First, because it implies that anything bad that happens to you is God’s intention for you, which I do not believe. And second, because it’s manifestly untrue. People are dealt situations they can’t handle all the time. That’s why God tells to look out for one another.

When I was in my teens – series of fantasy books popular at the time – line: “No evil ever came of a thing done for love.” I loved that; carried that around for a while.  … Then at some point in my late teens or 20s, I thought, Wait. That’s actually not true at all. Evil comes from things done for love all the time. 

Some of the proverbs we’ve inherited might be a little conditional in their application. For example: “If you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all” – That’s meant for situations like discouraging gossip, or not telling your friend that her new dress looks awful. But it can be misapplied to discourage people from speaking up about actual bad stuff. Contrast that with Proverbs 10:10: “The one who rebukes boldly makes peace!” 

Turning back to the Biblical book of Proverbs… it’s really interesting to read through! There are proverbs that still work, all these centuries later… Robert Alter: some of the proverbs “appear to derive from shrewd and considered reflection on moral behavior and human nature.” (351) 

One of my long-time favorites: “Better a meal of vegetables with love than a fatted ox with hatred.” (15:17) – better to live simply with love, than to have material plenty but no peace in your family or heart. One I read this week for the first time: “Like one who takes away a garment on a cold day, or pours vinegar on a wound, is one who sings songs to a heavy heart.” (25:20). Now, singing to someone sad could be nice, but I think the implication here is of somebody being aggressively cheerful at someone else who’s really burdened or struggling. We’ve all been there, and yeah, it’s rough. 

“A fool takes no pleasure in understanding, but only in expressing personal opinion.” (18:2) – We all know one of those… 

We had a youth retreat on relationships, last winter – Proverbs (and Sirach, another Biblical Wisdom book) had a lot of useful material! Proverbs 17.9: “One who forgives an affront fosters friendship, but one who dwells on disputes will alienate a friend…. 18: Some friends play at friendship, but a true friend sticks closer than one’s nearest kin…” Working with the youth: lots we could relate to! 

There are proverbs that we maybe CAN’T relate to so much, but that give us a glimpse into life 3000 years ago… “Cheating scales are the Lord’s loathing, and a true weight-stone His pleasure” (11:1) – several versions. Reflect a time when weighing things out was a key part of any transaction, and false weights was a major form of economic dishonesty. “If you find honey, eat just enough – too much of it, and you will vomit.” (25:16) Probably about more than just honey, but still makes me curious about the backstory.

And there are proverbs that make us grateful that times have changed… 11:22 – “Like a gold ring in a pig’s snout is a beautiful woman without good sense…” OK. 13:24 – “Those who spare the rod hate their children, but those who love them are diligent to discipline them…” Meaning: You have beat your children to raise them right. Some of y’all were raised like that. But that’s not how most folks choose to parent today. 

And of course there’s a whole boatload of stuff that only sounds wise, but doesn’t actually hold up if you give it a hard look. A biggie: Proverbs’ confidence that if you work hard and do what’s right, you’ll get ahead in life. Robert Alter: “[Proverbs]… evinces great confidence in a rational moral order that dependably produces concrete rewards for virtue and wisdom.” That is just… not reliably true!! But we still speak and act as if it were, sometimes – thereby adding to human suffering.The book of Job, which comes along later this fall, will bring us some wonderfully complex wrestling with the idea that good people always have good lives.

Let me pause here for a brief detour into the book of Ecclesiastes, or Qohelet; I’ll use the Hebrew name because it’s less confusing, since there’s another Biblical book called Ecclesiasticus. Every adult here has heard a few verses from Qohelet: To every thing there is a season… Let people finish the sentence. That’s a lovely passage and some durable wisdom, I think. That life has different seasons can be a helpful reminder sometimes. 

But the book as a whole is interestingly ambiguous in terms of what lasting wisdom it offers. Qohelet written centuries after King Solomon, but presents itself as the voice of Solomon, late in life, reflecting back on life – and forward towards death. 

There’s a core word, throughout the text, that’s traditionally translated as Vanity – not in the sense of excessive pride in one’s own appearance, but in the sense of something futile or pointless. Listen to part of the first chapter… 

“The words of the Teacher, the son of David, king in Jerusalem.
Vanity of vanities, says the Teacher,
vanity of vanities! All is vanity.
What do people gain from all the toil
at which they toil under the sun?… 
I, the Teacher, when king over Israel in Jerusalem, applied my mind to seek and to search out by wisdom all that is done under heaven. It is an unhappy business that God has given to human beings to be busy with. I saw all the deeds that are done under the sun; and see, all is vanity and a chasing after wind.
What is crooked cannot be made straight,
and what is lacking cannot be counted.

I said to myself, ‘I have acquired great wisdom, surpassing all who were over Jerusalem before me; and my mind has had great experience of wisdom and knowledge.’… [But] I perceived that this also is but a chasing after wind.
For in much wisdom is much vexation,
and those who increase knowledge increase sorrow…”

It is a loss that Qohelet is barely in our Sunday lectionary. It’s such a human text. Many of us have those thoughts and feelings at times. What is the point of it all? Where is the deeper meaning? And yet we might quickly find ourselves arguing with Qohelet’s sense that because death comes for us all, nothing matters and everything is pointless. I would love to do a study on Qohelet. I think there’s a struggle at the heart of that text with which we could be in fruitful conversation. But for now, let me just hold it up as another example of something that feels or sounds wise… and yet is missing something, at its heart. 

Proverbs are meant to distill wisdom – and there are different things that we call “wisdom.” Last week, we saw that Solomon’s “wisdom” included prudence, political savvy, strategic effectiveness. 

James – wonderful, vivid passage today on how much our tongues and our words can get us in trouble – follows that immediately with a passage we’ll hear next week, in which he says there are two types of wisdom: An “earthly, unspiritual, devilish” wisdom that has to do with envy and selfish ambition. And a wisdom from above, that is pure, peaceful, gentle, obedient, filled with mercy and good actions, fair, and genuine. You can recognize that kind of wisdom, says James, in a good life, and a spirit of gentleness. A person formed by this kind of holy wisdom will sow the seeds of justice through their peaceful acts. That sounds like somebody I want to be around. 

If we are lucky, and pay attention, we may meet a few people in life in whom we can see this kind of wisdom… and we might stumble upon and gather a few proverbs that capture that kind of wisdom. Bits and pieces we can carry with us to ground us and guide us. 

Beside my desk in my office, I have a cork board that’s covered with a lot of things – some proverb-length, some longer – that I have found to be true and reliable enough to use as touchstones, and that contain something of which I need to be reminded – something that’s not already built into my worldview and way of being. For example, there’s a simple prayer of gratitude and openness from Dag Hammarskjold – you can learn about him on our prayer table today: For all that has been: Thanks! For all that will be: Yes! 

There are other thing I carry inside me as sayings or songs – like the one that goes: You don’t have to know the way; the Way knows the way. These things meaningfully capture something important that helps me be a better priest and a better person. 

But I have wrestled a little, in these weeks of exploring the theme and the literature of Wisdom, with whether all this is God-y enough. Have I ditched my responsibility of calling us to turn our hearts towards the Love at the heart of the universe, in favor of insightful aphorisms and good advice? 

And yet! There is ALL THIS wisdom literature in the Bible. It’s a big chunk of the book, if you add it all up. And there are repeated reminders that Wisdom – true wisdom –  is a gift from God, even an emanation or aspect of God; and that the pursuit of wisdom is a holy and righteous path. 

God says through the prophet Isaiah, My thoughts are not your thoughts; but the Wisdom texts of the Bible suggest that there’s at least some overlap in the Venn diagram of God’s thoughts and our thoughts! 

And the fact that God gives us this capacity to become wise – to recognize and to share wisdom – true wisdom, the kind of wisdom James is talking about that’s peaceful and gentle and merciful and fair and genuine and just – the fact that God gives us that capacity is just such a beautiful sign of the intimacy and partnership that God wants with us. We were never made to be puppets or subjects, unquestioningly following divine degrees. We were made to be children, and co-workers, and friends of God, in the holy work of ordering all things well. 

Sermon, Sept. 1

Today we begin a foray into the Wisdom Literature of the Bible. The Wisdom literature is a type or genre of text – like history, novel, love poem, prophesy, self-help, memoir, … 

What makes something wisdom literature? 

  • Concerned with everyday life and how to live it well. Deals with the human condition, writ large. 
  • Often makes playful use of metaphors from daily life. 
  • Not much interest in history, politics, or, frankly, religion.  
  • Focus on order and harmony – often, though not always. Wisdom literature can support or criticize the status quo… 
  • Wisdom literature is descriptive, but looks for the deeper underlying truths and patterns of things, naming the things we don’t always name. 
  • Wisdom literature does not appeal to revealed truth; it’s not grounded in what God has proclaimed to humanity, but in observation and reflection.
  • But in the Biblical context, Wisdom is closely identified with God; it’s described as a gift from God, sometimes even an aspect or emanation of God, as in the beautiful poem we read together. And growing in wisdom is one path of faithful human response to God. Source:  https://www.crivoice.org/wisdom.html

Biblical scholar Ellen Davis, in her book on the Song of Songs, Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, and Job, writes about the Wisdom literature – let me quote her at length: 

“The word ‘wisdom’ sounds slightly old-fashioned. We all know many smart people. Most of us admire people who have a good education… But stop for a moment and think: how many people do you know whom you would describe as wise? How many people can you say, without qualification, live their lives day by day, even moment by moment, in a way that glorifies God? …

For that is what ‘wisdom’ meant to the biblical writers: living in the world in such a way that God, and God’s intentions for the world, are acknowledged in all that we do. It sounds like a lofty goal, perhaps too lofty for ordinary people living busy lives. Such a goal of wisdom seems attainable only for great saints.… Yet this is not the understanding of the biblical writers… They consider wisdom within the grasp of every person who desires it wholeheartedly. Wisdom does not require any special intellectual gifts. The fruit  of wisdom, a well-ordered life and a peaceful mind, results not from a high IQ but from a [particular] disposition of the heart…

“So what is wisdom literature? It is spiritual guidance for ordinary people. Moreover, it comes from ordinary people, and this in itself makes the wisdom literature different from most of the rest of the Bible…. The sages make no claim to have received special revelation from God… Much of the instruction they offer is inherited from their fathers and mothers, both biological parents and ancestors in the faith.” 

The Wisdom literature, Davis says, offers “deep, imaginative reflection” – often in the form of poetry and extended metaphor – on the most commonplace realities of human existence: “birth and death, poverty and wealth, education and work, grief and joy, human love and love of God.” 

Another great Old Testament scholar, Walter Brueggeman, writes, “Wisdom teaching contains almost nothing of salvation miracles or covenantal commandments, only the slow, steady pondering of the gifts and demands of lived life…. Wisdom literature asks about ‘what works,’ what risks may be run, what realities can be trusted, and where the practice of human choice, human freedom, and human responsibility can be exercised.” (232, Reverberations of Faith) 

These texts, says Brueggeman, contrast the wise with fools who lack wisdom and believe that life is an “anything goes” proposition… but people who follow only their own wills and impulses will not discover the hidden shape of reality, or find the path of living that is most congruent with God’s purposes for the world and our lives.

There are whole books of the Bible that really fit the bill as wisdom literature, such as the Wisdom of Solomon, Ecclesiastes, Proverbs, Job, and the letter of James.

There are other books that have sections or passages that have that quality. For example, the Psalms sometimes duck into Wisdom literature territory. And Jesus sometimes ventures into Wisdom teaching. 

Let’s cast an eye over today’s lectionary, from the perspective of the Wisdom literature… 

In our 1 Kings lesson, Solomon, Bathsheba’s son, becomes king after his father David. God offers Solomon a gift, and Solomon asks for wisdom. 

Solomon is a complex figure – more on that next week – but I sympathize with how genuinely overwhelmed he sounds here. When he says he’s a little child, he’s not speaking literally – he was probably somewhere in his 20s? – but he does not feel prepared to rule. Having him become king was his mom’s idea. 

He knows that he’s in over his head and has no idea how to do this job… a kind of wisdom in itself! 

So God gifts him with wisdom – AND with riches and honor. The text invites us to see Solomon as a king favored by God, like his father David before him. 

Note that even here, wisdom is not the same as revelation! God doesn’t just plant wisdom in Solomon’s mind and heart.

Rather, God gives him understanding and discernment, so that he will be able to look at the needs of his people, and rule wisely. 

This is not a wisdom text; this is just more Biblical history. But it gives us Solomon the Wise, an important figure for the Biblical tradition. FOUR full books of the Bible are presented as containing Solomon’s words and wisdom, in addition to what’s recorded in the chronicles of his reign in 1 Kings. 

First there’s the Song of Songs, which is not Wisdom literature; it’s more of an extended love poem.

Then there’s the book of Proverbs; we’ll duck into that in a couple of weeks. It describes itself as the proverbs of Solomon. 

There’s Ecclesiastes, which claims its author is “the son of David, king in Jerusalem,” and has a number of echoes of Solomon’s life, though it was likely written several centuries after Solomon’s time.  

Ecclesiastes is the source of a very famous snippet of Biblical wisdom: “To every thing there is a season, and a time for every purpose under heaven…” 

Finally, there’s the book called the Wisdom of Solomon, which was written quite late, around the time of Jesus or a little earlier! – but also presents itself as the insights of King Solomon.

So, a whole lot of Biblical wisdom is attributed to Solomon, remembered perhaps as a greater sage than he was a king. 

Our second text, the poem of faith we read together, comes from the book I just mentioned, the Wisdom of Solomon. 

This is definitely wisdom literature even as it describes Wisdom itself – as a pure and beautiful hidden reality, available to holy souls who seek God. 

I don’t have a lot to say about this text except that I really love it! “In every generation she passes into holy souls and makes them friends of God, and prophets.” May we have many such among us! 

Then there’s James, the New Testament letter that we’ll be reading through over the next few weeks. James is one of my favorite epistles. The author names himself as James in the first verse. Ancient church tradition identifies the author as James, the brother of Jesus, who became the first bishop of the church in Jerusalem. And modern Biblical scholarship… says that’s not impossible. I like the idea, myself! – I really notice how much James sounds like Jesus. I like to think of him reinforcing and extending his brother’s teaching, in the decades after Jesus’ death, resurrection, and ascension. 

I love the Epistle of James because James has so many things to say that I need to hear, every time. He speaks to my heart and names my sins. He’s especially tough on the sins of superficiality and lukewarmness. It’s good to know that those were apparently struggles for first-century Christians, as well as 21st-century! 

We’ll hear from James over the next several weeks, but just in today’s short passage, we get these bangers: 

“Your anger does not produce God’s righteousness.” Ouch. 

Okay. Being mad about something doesn’t mean I’m either right, or righteous… and being mad in itself does not fix anything.

“Be doers of the word, and not merely hearers who deceive themselves.” That image of looking at yourself in a mirror and then walking away and immediately forgetting what you look like! How many times have I named and confronted my sins, and then… just gone on my merry way? 

“Religion that is pure and undefiled before God the Father, is this: to care for orphans and widows in their distress, and to keep oneself unstained by the world.” 

… Yeah. 

James sounds like Jesus in part because a lot of Jesus’ teaching and preaching springs from the Wisdom tradition, though he gives it his own distinctive spin. In Mark’s Gospel today we have Jesus doing a little Wisdom teaching! “Listen to me, all of you, and understand: there is nothing outside a person that by going in can defile… since it enters not the heart but the stomach, and goes out into the sewer! It is what comes out of a person that defiles. For it is from within, from the human heart, that evil intentions come: fornication, theft, murder, adultery, avarice, wickedness, deceit, licentiousness, envy, slander, pride, folly. All these evil things come from within, and they defile a person.”

That’s Wisdom teaching – playful use of a mundane reality (eating and pooping!) to talk about something more fundamental and universal: character and what makes somebody a good person. 

Notice that our Gospel reading skips a few verses. In those verses, Jesus accuses these religious leaders – the scribes and the Pharisees – of encouraging people to make big donations to the Temple instead of supporting their aging parents, even though “honor your father and mother” is one of the Ten Commandments given to Moses by God. So this is a scene where Jesus is arguing that Jewish religious practice has grown beyond God’s original intentions, and become a kind of superficial piety that doesn’t change hearts or lives. That is a tendency of religion in general – not something specific to Judaism. 

And God knows that 21st century folks can certainly be weird and moralistic about food and what you should and shouldn’t eat! 

So this teaching may still have something to say to us. Eat what your body and your soul need to eat; but that’s not what makes you a good or bad person. Your behavior, that comes out from inside of you, is what reveals who you really are. 

Wisdom literature, as I’ve been describing it, is a concept from Biblical scholarship, a description of a genre of text from the ancient world. But the wisdom literature of the Bible contains some thoughts and perspectives that we might still describe as wisdom, two or three thousand years later. 

Wisdom is tricky to describe. To some extent we know it when we see or hear it… though there’s a lot of stuff out there that sounds like wisdom, but maybe isn’t really so wise.

Where do WE find wisdom? What wisdom helps ground and guide us, in our daily lives?…. 

In 1934, the poet T. S. Eliot wrote, “Where is the wisdom we have lost in knowledge?

Where is the knowledge we have lost in information?”

Today he might add, “Where is the information we have lost in content?”… 

It’s easy to think that Wisdom is rarer or more elusive today, amid the chaos of modern life. But one of the gifts of being in weekly conversation with an ancient text, as we are, is that we can see people thousands of years ago worrying about whether young people will make good choices, fretting about leaders who lack wisdom, and so on. 

I think maybe wisdom has always been rare and elusive.  And one of the things about wisdom is that the more you have of it, the less likely you are to put yourself out there as a font of wisdom. People who go around talking about how wise they are, often turn out to be con men or cult leaders… 

And when I think of the folks in my life to whom I turn for wisdom, I think they would quickly say, Oh, I’m not that wise. I’m just smart enough to know what I don’t know… 

We associate wisdom with age, to some extent. Life has a way of piling up experiences that can lead to a broader and deeper perspective. But it’s not a simple correlation. Everyone over 70 isn’t wise… and everyone under 20 is not foolish. I’ve learned things from my children, and our children, that have changed me. 

As we keep reading our way through some Biblical Wisdom literature in the coming weeks, I’d like to share a little parish exercise in thinking about wisdom in our lives and our time.

Below are some questions for you to consider; I invite your responses over the next few weeks. You can comment in the chat or email me. I can also send these out by email or put them up in the Facebook group, if that’s helpful…  

Let us pray – a prayer for wisdom from our Book of Common Prayer. 

O God, by whom the meek are guided in judgment, and clarity rises up from confusion for the godly: Grant us, in all our doubts and uncertainties, the grace to ask what you would have us to do, that the Spirit of wisdom may save us from all false choices, and that in your light we may see light, and in your straight path may not stumble; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

QUESTIONS TO PONDER… 

How would you define wisdom – or are there other words you connect with the word “wisdom”? 

Is there a person you think of as wise? (This could be someone you know, or a public figure, writer, leader, past or present…) 

Are there life experiences you think have helped you develop wisdom? 

Wisdom sometimes takes the form of proverbs or sayings that people pass around or pass down. 

Are there wise proverbs or sayings that you think of often, or that have been passed down in your family? 

You may share responses on our Google form here!

Homily, August 25

We’re in John chapter 6 – the Bread Gospels.  We’ve been reading this for a while; today I’m finally going to (sort of) preach on it. Next week we’re finally back to Mark, the Gospel we’re mostly following this year! 

I’m going to share four things that I struggle with about John 6, as we’ve been receiving it, and two things I like. 

  1. The first frustrating thing is the way the lectionary spreads it over FIVE FULL WEEKS. 

It is really long – seventy verses – and detailed, and somewhat redundant! But at the same time, it is all one story. Jesus feeding the crowd leads into his preaching about bread, and the response of people who are curious… and then upset. 

John’s Gospel has several extended stories like this – the woman at the well; the young man born blind. Those are a little shorter – about forty verses each – but the lectionary gives them on one day, as one story. 

I don’t know why it breaks this one up so much. I know a lot of my fellow preachers have been really annoyed by it – have run out of things to say about bread.  Erin, our office coordinator, has been joking with me about using up all the bread hymns…

2. The second frustrating thing is the way the lectionary breaks this story from the story of the woman at the well in John 4. 

In that story, Jesus meets a woman who is getting water. He tells her: ‘Everyone who drinks the water from this well will be thirsty again, but those who drink of the water that I will give them will never be thirsty. The water that I will give will become in them a spring of water gushing up to eternal life.’ And the woman says to him, ‘Sir, give me this water, so that I may never be thirsty or have to keep coming here to draw water.’

That sounds a lot like parts of this story, right? 

The author of this Gospel means you to read that story, then read this story, and have them build on each other. But the lectionary gives us that story in Lent of Year A; we’re in late summer of Year B. Eighteen months apart – literally as far apart as it can be, in a three year cycle of reading.  (We’ll read it next in March 2026!!!) 

3. The third frustrating thing is the way John talks about “the Jews.” Not in the script today but in the Biblical text the people who question and argue with Jesus are just called “the Jews.” 

Which is odd because Jesus and his disciples were Jews! Other Gospels name particular groups and movements within Judaism who had beef with Jesus in various ways. John is written a little later; maybe Christianity has begun to really separate from Judaism. Or maybe John’s community had their own reasons to cast Jews in general as the enemy. 

But it’s not true to the real dynamics between Jesus and the groups who opposed him, and it’s led to a lot of violence by Christians against Jews over the millennia. 

4. The fourth frustrating thing is the way Jesus talks about eating his flesh and drinking his blood is, in fact, kind of gross, right? Eugh. And he kind of goes on and on about it. 

In the other Gospels he says what he says at the last supper – we hear it every Sunday: “Take, eat, this bread is my body, broken for you… Drink this, all of you; this cup is the new Covenant in my Blood, poured out for you and for many…” 

But John’s Jesus really leans into the cannibalism thing. It’s no wonder that it turns some people off and they decide to stop following him! 

I snuck it into the script version of the text that we just read, but I want us to understand that the idea of drinking someone’s blood is EXTRA upsetting in Judaism. God’s people the Jews have special, holy food rules that they follow, that are very important for them. And one of those rules, from way back in the time of Moses, was not to eat or drink blood. The way they kill animals for food reflects that rule.  And of course Jesus knew that.  So he is saying stuff he knows will upset people – perhaps including some of us! 

But this starts to lead me into some of the things I like about this passage. 

5. I like the way there’s a kind of riddle here. 

What do we call the part of our service where I say, or we say, “Take, eat, this bread is my body, broken for you… Drink this, all of you…”

That’s the Eucharist, right? Or in our books it might say the Great Thanksgiving. Which means the same thing. Or sometimes we say Communion. 

In the Eucharist we tell the story of the Last Supper that Jesus shared with his friends, before he was arrested and executed, and how he shared bread and wine with them and gave them a new meaning that night. And he also told them, Keep sharing a special holy meal like this! Do this and remember me! 

Which is why we do it, and remember him. 

That story is really important for Christians. And it’s in three of our four Gospels – Mark, Matthew, and Luke. 

BUT IT’S NOT IN JOHN’S GOSPEL. 

John doesn’t show us Jesus creating the Eucharist. Instead, on that final evening, John’s Jesus washes the disciple’s feet.

People have wondered: Did John not know about the Last Supper and the Eucharist? Did he disagree that it should be a core practice of the church? Why isn’t it in his Gospel? 

Except… it kind of is in his Gospel! It’s just here, instead of on his last evening with his friends. 

John has Jesus talking about eating his body and blood, just like at the Last Supper. But he’s not giving people bread and wine, to say: These things become kind of a holy extension of me; you don’t actually have to eat anything upsetting. 

I think this scene makes it very clear that John knew about the Eucharist and thought it was important. 

Maybe he even thought it was so important that people should be kind of weirded out by it. 

And I think it’s interesting to wonder about why John’s Gospel tells us about Eucharist this way, instead of telling us the Last Supper story, which he knew. 

That’s an interesting riddle, to me! 

6. The last thing I want to say about this story is something I kind of like and also kind of struggle with, as a preacher and pastor. 

In this story and in the story of the woman at the well, Jesus says, basically: 

You’re drinking regular water, or eating regular bread.  

You’ll get thirsty again, and hungry again.

I am offering you water and bread that will satisfy you, forever.

That will keep you from ever being thirsty, or hungry.

That will bubble up inside you like a fresh spring…

That will sustain you so completely that you’ll live forever. 

The problem with this is it’s just not true, right? 

Not in a literal or earthly sense. 

Even the disciples, who received Eucharist from Jesus’ own hands, got hungry again and had to eat more meals. 

When we take Communion here, we’re still pretty ready for those coffee hour snacks!

There’s a really strong theme in John’s Gospel where Jesus uses something from the real world to try and talk about how things are in God’s reality. He talks about being born again.

He talks about the wind, and how that’s like God’s spirit.

He talks about water, and thirst; about bread, and hunger.

He talks about blindness, and what it means to really see. 

And much more. 

And people get confused. They don’t understand.

Some of them get curious and want to know more.

Some of them get mad and leave. 

So I understand that John’s Jesus is talking about a different kind of hunger, and thirst. 

Not the way you feel when your body really needs a drink, 

But the way you feel when the part of you that isn’t your body really feels dry and shriveled and needs to be refreshed. 

Has anybody ever felt that way?… 

Not the way you feel when your body really needs some food, 

But the way you feel when the part of you that isn’t your body just doesn’t have any fuel… any enjoyment… and really needs something that can sustain you and give you delight. 

Has anybody ever felt that way?… 

I have felt those things. I know what it’s like to have the part of me that isn’t my body be thirsty, or hungry. I know what it feels like when the part of me that isn’t my body gets that refreshing drink, or that sustaining meal. 

But it is hard to talk about, outside of those metaphors. And I know those metaphors might not make much sense to a lot of people. Just like they didn’t in Jesus’ time. 

So, I like it when Jesus says that what he’s offering people is something that will refresh and sustain the not-body parts of them. Like a cold lemonade and a delicious sandwich when you’re really hot and thirsty and hungry. 

But I don’t know how to give that to someone who’s looking for it. I don’t even know how to find it reliably myself.  It’s not as simple as handing someone a plate of cheese or cookies at coffee hour! 

All I can do as a pastor is say what Jesus says, more or less: There is something, here, that can offer relief and satisfaction to the hungry heart or the thirsty soul. 

It’s not easy to find it, for all kinds of reasons. 

But it’s there, and Jesus – who is God – wants to give it to us. 

And I think that’s good news.

Lord, give me this water, so that I may never be thirsty; 

Lord, give us this bread always. 

Amen. 

Budget Update, August 2024

INCOME 

Members, friends and guests have been very faithful and generous in pledge payments, Sunday offerings, and gifts for special occasions like Easter. We are slightly over budget in these areas, which is especially great in summer when giving often lags. 

We are somewhat below budget on income from outside groups using our buildings. We have some work to do preparing the Parish Center, our second building, for use as a potential rental space. If you’d like to help move this along, please contact Rev. Miranda! 

The Miscellaneous Income line includes pledge payments from the previous year; proceeds from some small funds; and diocesan grants and designated gifts to help support our formation programs. 

EXPENSES

Overall, expenses are very close to budget. Some budget lines are off due to the timing of monthly payments and will even out in the coming months. The Lay Staff and Worship budget lines reflect arrangements for Sunday music during our Director of Music Ministry’s medical leave of absence; we look forward to welcoming Steve back soon! Our new solar panels are significantly reducing energy costs this spring and summer. 

THE BIG PICTURE 

The 2024 budget we adopted in January was a deficit budget. If we end the year on budget, we will spend about $10,000 more than we take in. We have funds to fill that gap, for now; but new or increased giving, or other opportunities such as rentals or grants, could help as well, without using reserve funds we may need for other purposes. 

We rely on the support of our members and friends to continue our ministry and our common life here.About 85% of St. Dunstan’s income comes from pledged giving – giving by members to fulfill a pledge, a statement of intention offered each fall for the year ahead. Another 5% comes from plate offerings and other gifts.

Our annual Giving Campaign begins in mid-October. We encourage you to begin thinking, talking, and praying about your pledge for 2025. And watch for an opportunity for structured prayerful reflection on your relationship with money in the weeks ahead, through the Our Money Story curriculum! 

Sermon, August 11

Back in Lent a group of us read and discussed a book called On Repentance and Repair, by Rabbi Danya Ruttenberg. The book explores Jewish thinking on repentance, making amends, and forgiveness, based in the work of the 12th century rabbi Maimonides. 

Christianity has tended to emphasize the obligation to forgive – following Jesus’ lead to some extent! It’s right there in the Lord’s Prayer, for one thing, and Jesus talks in strong and urgent terms about forgiveness at other times too. I think he’s pointing to the ways that holding onto our grievances and hurts can be a burden… but not at the expense of accountability and setting things right, which he also seems to care about! 

According to Ruttenberg, Judaism offers a much more victim-centered focus. The first priority is restoration of the victim, to whatever extent is possible. The second priority is the perpetrator doing their work to become someone who understands the harm they have caused, and beginning the work of becoming someone who won’t cause that kind of harm again in the future. 

Restoring relationship between the victim and the one who caused harm, including the possibility of forgiveness, is farther down the list. In Jewish thought it is not always useful or necessary, especially if it would further harm the victim to have to return to what they experienced. 

Ruttenberg lays out five steps in the process for a person who has caused harm. First comes naming and owning the harm. The perpetrator has to be able to recognize what they did and its impact.  This step may include public confession to an appropriate audience – which is to say, not necessarily the public per se, but some community that is affected or involved, or that has a stake in both the harm and the healing, here. Not just the victim. 

Note that one pretty common thing we see when public figures mess up is that they issue shallow, speedy apologies that reveal that they don’t really understand why or how their words or actions caused harm. A lot of potential repentance processes fail at this first step! 

The second step is starting to change – beginning the work of listening, learning, and working on yourself to become somebody who won’t do that again. 

The third step is accepting consequences and making restitution or amends, in whatever ways may be possible. When David says that the man who had his neighbor’s sheep killed must make restitution seven times over, this is what he’s talking about. The man in the story owes his neighbor seven sweet baby ewe lambs, to make up for the one that he cruelly took. 

The fourth step, in Maimonides’ process, is apology. We may well be surprised by how far along in the process this falls! But the group reading the book together found that this made some sense to us. Many of us have seen or experienced the frustration of premature and shallow apologies by a person or institution that hasn’t really made any effort to address harm or change the things that caused the harm. 

And the fifth step is to make different choices in the future. 

Forgiveness isn’t one of these steps because these steps fundamentally aren’t about the harmed person. This is about what to do when you have caused harm.  As we all have, and do. 

It’s a different framework from Christianity to some extent, but it’s also just a different lens or perspective. Christianity’s focus on forgiveness is centered on the person who has experienced harm. 

We may wrestle with elements of the approach laid out by Maimonides and Ruttenberg. But I do think there’s a helpful corrective here for Christians. 

Over the millennia Christianity has sometimes leaned so hard on the obligation to forgive that we have lost track of accountability, true repentance and change. 

Now let’s talk a little about David. 

It is a big deal that David is able to hear Nathan’s indictment, and repent. It’s a big deal when David says, “I have sinned against the Lord.”

But… is the Lord the only person David has sinned against?

Who else?….  (Uriah; Bathsheba; Joab; the other soldiers killed and their loved ones; arguably even the servant…) 

We read Psalm 51 a few minutes ago. A lot of the Psalms actually begin with little explanatory notes – about the music, or sometimes about the situation. Those aren’t included when we use them in worship, but they’re pretty interesting sometimes. And the heading in the Biblical text for Psalm 51 is, “A Psalm of David, when the prophet Nathan came to him, after he had gone in to Bathsheba.”

David NEEDS to repent to God – make no mistake. 

A fun thing I learned studying this story this year: When David writes to Joab to congratulate him on getting rid of Uriah, he says, literally, “Don’t let the thing be evil in your sight.” But then a few verses further on, the text says, “But what David had done was evil in God’s sight.” 

David thought – for a moment – that he could become the arbiter of good and evil. He was wrong. His repentance is – importantly – submitting himself once again to God’s sovereignty.  

So, yes, David needs to humble himself before God. But not only God, surely. We just listed dozens of other people whom David has substantively harmed, because of one evening’s bad judgment.

Yet right here in verse 4 of the psalm David says to God, “Against you only have I sinned.” The Common English Bible renders it this way: “I’ve sinned against you—you alone.” Robert Alter’s close translation of the Hebrew has, “You alone have I offended.” 

That verse makes it very clear, but the whole psalm is…. well, a kind way to say it is that it’s focused on restoring the vertical relationship between David and God, with zero attention to the horizontal relationships with other people. A harsher way to put it would be to say that it’s incredibly self-centered. David wants to get right with God so he can reclaim his mantle of righteousness, and “teach God’s ways to the wicked.” Despite knowing that the man in the parable should make restitution, there is no evidence in Scripture that David tries to do anything to mend relationships or make amends to Bathsheba, Joab, or anyone else. 

Can we imagine an alternate reality in which David came clean?Confessed, apologized, made amends? Acknowledged to his people that he had violated their trust and abused his power? Maybe he would have had to step down as king… but maybe he would have been happier as a private citizen. David remained king his whole, long life – but at the cost of tremendous personal suffering. The lectionary doesn’t give us much more of David’s story, but there’s actually a lot more to it. Read the rest of 2 Samuel sometime and see the many painful ways that Nathan’s prophesy plays out – “The sword shall never depart from your own house.”

What are we to take from all this? 

When our five young actors sat down for a table read of this script last Monday, Linus – our David – was the only one who hadn’t seen it already. When we hit the part where David starts planning to kill Uriah, Linus broke character to say, “Oh… I’m TERRIBLE!”

For a 3000 year old story there’s something surprisingly contemporary about David. The 20th and 21st centuries are littered with public men – in some cases, otherwise great men – who risked everything in the pursuit of what I will euphemistically call romantic interests. And not infrequently, there was some degree of uncertainty about the other party’s consent. And we are certainly familiar, in the modern world, with the principal that the coverup usually gets you into deeper trouble – as it did for David. 

I’ve been putting pressure on myself for weeks, maybe months, since we decided to work with the David story for Drama Camp this summer, to find something to say to the kids and youth about what is edifying or meaningful in this story. Which is silly, because they are perfectly able interpreters of Scripture! But still: it’s an awful enough story that I felt a need to explain why it’s in the Bible and in the lectionary. 

Now, I think I’ve been overthinking it. We should find in this story exactly what the ancient chroniclers meant us to find, when they recorded and passed down this unvarnished, ugly tale. 

A great man, chosen and anointed by God, can still mess up, and mess up badly – and dig himself into a deeper and deeper hole.

None of us are perfect, and nobody gets a pass. David, for all his intimacy with God, did not get to decide what’s right and wrong, or who lives and who dies. No human has that right and privilege.

David is writ large in every possible way, his mistakes as towering as his triumphs. But his message to posterity is simply: Don’t make the mistake of thinking that right and wrong don’t apply to you. And when you mess up, try to fix it instead of trying to hide it. And those – apparently – are lessons for the ages. 

Sermon, August 4

Our Ephesians text today contains these words: “The gifts [Christ] gave were that some would be apostles, some prophets, some evangelists, some pastors and teachers, to equip the saints for the work of ministry, for building up the body of Christ…”

It’s a beautiful passage that describes something I get to see every day, with joy: the way God has gifted the members of this community in so many different ways, to be part of building up this body of Christ and equipping the saints – that’s you – for the work of ministry, of living out God’s love and justice in the world. 

This passage is also part of the rite of the ordination of a priest in the Episcopal Church. When I was ordained a priest in February of 2009, Bishop Michael Curry prayed these words before laying his hands on me and saying, “Give your Holy Spirit to Miranda; fill her with grace and power; and make her a priest in your church.” 

It worked!… 

This past Monday – July 29 – was the 50th anniversary of the ordination of a group of women known as the Philadelphia 11. 

Eleven women who were ordained as priests “irregularly” – outside the normal structures and processes of the Episcopal Church – two years before the Episcopal Church’s legislative gathering, General Convention, explicitly authorized the ordination of women to the priesthood in 1976.

Why was this action necessary?… It can be hard for folks attending an Episcopal church today to comprehend the institutional and cultural conservatism of the Episcopal Church sixty years ago. It wasn’t across the board or totally rigid; there were big steps towards ecological awareness and concern for civil rights and racial justice in the church in the 1960s and early ‘70s. 

But although there was no church law excluding women from ordination as deacons, priests, or bishops, there was a very strong custom against it. There had long been an order of “deaconesses,” separate and unequal from male deacons. In 1970, General Convention eliminated that distinction. But a resolution to open the path to ordination to the priesthood to women failed at the same convention – and then again in 1973. Support had grown, but wasn’t enough to overcome opposition.

Some women who felt called to priesthood, and their allies, began to plan other strategies to try to shake the church out of comfort and custom. One of the women said they felt like their vocation, their calling from God, was not to keep asking for permission to be a priest, but to be a priest. 

Ordination is what the church calls an episcopal act – meaning a bishop has to do it. You need a bishop to make a priest. A lot of bishops were sympathetic, but few were willing to rock the boat. 

Finally, three retired bishops stepped forward as willing to do the ordinations. (You only need one, but they wanted some extra juice!) In our church’s understanding of holy orders, once you’re consecrated a bishop, you’re a bishop for life unless you really mess up; but once retired, you have a little less at stake. 

In addition, one bishop who was not retired chose to participate in the service but not in the actual moment of ordination. I’ll say more about him in a moment. 

On July 29, 1974, the Feast of Saints Martha and Mary, a massive ordination service was held at the Church of the Advocate in Philadelphia. Over 2000 people attended – imagine!!

There’s a part in the ordination service – like in the wedding liturgy – where the congregation is asked if they know of any reason why the service should not proceed. When that question was asked, several priests in attendance stepped up to read statements against women’s ordination. The bishops present responded that they were acting in response to God’s command, saying, “The time for our obedience is now.” And they continued with the ordinations. 

The Presiding Bishop at the time – John Allin – convened an emergency meeting of the House of Bishops, the body consisting of all the bishops of the Episcopal Church – at O’Hare Airport, for some reason? 

Initially the Bishops were going to declare the ordinations invalid – meaning, the ordination rite was void and those women aren’t really priests now. But the bishop of the Diocese of West Missouri, Arthur Vogel, a scholar and theologian, pointed out that that could be a problem in terms of church order. So instead, the House of Bishops declared the ordinations “irregular”… thereby ceding that these women might actually be priests now… but they also told the church at large not to recognize them as priests until General Convention met next in 1976 and decided how to proceed. 

(However, the Episcopal Divinity School, which thirty years later would become my seminary, hired two of the Philadelphia Eleven with full priestly duties in January of 1975!…) 

The 1976 General Convention finally approved the ordination of women to the priesthood, and opened a process for the full recognition of the ordinations of the “irregularly” ordained women. There’s so much more to this story… and there’s a new movie about it all that I would love to be able to show here sometime! This year, reading about it, my attention was caught by some of the men who were part of the story.

I noticed Bishop Tony Ramos – the bishop who chose to participate even though he wasn’t retired. In fact, he was quite young – only 36. He was from Puerto Rico, and had been appointed as the missionary bishop to the diocese of Costa Rica in 1968, at the age of 31. He resigned from that post a decade later to make room for a Costa Rican bishop to serve, then served the Diocese of New York as an assisting bishop for Hispanic ministries for many years.

Bishop Ramos died in 2019. His obituary calls him a “gift to the church and a prophetic voice… a life-long staunch supporter of women’s rights [who] fought for all marginalized communities.” As a result of his participation in the irregular ordinations in 1974, he felt “sidelined” and “exiled” by the church for much of the rest of his career – but he never wavered in his pride about having participated, seeing July 29, 1974, as a watershed moment for the church. Speaking about his participation at the time, he said, “The only way to do justice is to challenge injustice.” 

I noticed Dr. Charles Willie, who preached at the ordination service. Willie was African-American, born in Texas. He became the first tenured African-American professor at Syracuse University in 1974 – where he brought his college friend Martin Luther King Jr. to speak a couple of times. In 1974 he left Syracuse to accept a tenured position as a professor of education at Harvard. He was also appointed by both the Kennedy and Carter administrations to serve on commissions related to youth wellbeing and mental health. 

Willie was an active lay member of the Episcopal Church – so much so that he was elected the Vice-President of the House of Deputies in 1970. That’s the second-highest elected role a layperson can hold in the larger Episcopal Church, and he was the first African-American to hold that office. 

Because he had spoken out for women in ordained ministry, he was invited to be the preacher at the ordination service. In his sermon, he preached that it is a Christian duty to disobey unjust laws, recalling the civil rights movement: “It was an unjust law of the state that demeaned the personhood of blacks by requiring them to move to the back of the bus, and it is an unjust law of the church which demeans women by denying them the opportunity to be professional priests.” However, he said, the ordination must be celebrated “not as an event of arrogant disobedience but as a moment of tender loving defiance.”

When the House of Bishops declared the ordinations “irregular,” Willie resigned from his House of Deputies leadership role in protest – essentially saying that if the Church wouldn’t move towards justice here, then it didn’t get to claim the mantle of inclusiveness by having an African-American in a leadership role. 

I noticed Bishop Arthur Vogel, the theologian who persuaded the House of Bishops away from declaring the ordinations simply invalid. Vogel was born in Milwaukee, and studied at Nashotah House, the conservative Episcopal seminary outside Milwaukee. He served the Episcopal church in Delafield, and on the faculty at Nashotah House, from 1952 to 1971. He was elected bishop of the Diocese of West Missouri in 1971. In 1976 he offered the opening invocation for the Republican National Convention in Kansas City, Missouri.

I don’t know a lot about Vogel, but it seems likely that he held strongly Anglo-Catholic convictions – meaning that he was an Episcopalian who felt that the Episcopal Church’s liturgy and polity should be quite similar to that of the Roman Catholic Church, and not the warm fuzzy guitar-strumming Roman Catholicism of the 1960s, either. 

Maintaining Anglo-Catholicism within the Episcopal Church has long been Nashotah House’s heritage and focus. And Vogel was also very active in ecumenical dialogue between the Episcopal and Roman Catholic Churches, reflecting his desire to see them come closer and perhaps even reconcile. You may be aware that the Roman Catholic church did not then, and does not now, ordain women to the priesthood. 

But it was Vogel who pushed the House of Bishops not to declare the Philadelphia ordinations invalid. He said, in essence: These women had met the church’s criteria for ordination; they were ordained by bishops in good standing, according to the rites of the Book of Common Prayer; we don’t have any church laws saying women can’t be ordained. So there is no solid ground for declaring these ordinations invalid. 

Why? Maybe because he was a careful, thoughtful scholar who was concerned about sloppy logic and knee-jerk reactions. Maybe because the retired bishop of his diocese was one of the ordaining bishops; perhaps there were conversations there. Whatever the reason: A smart, well-regarded man, who was not a progressive firebrand, spoke up and helped the church handle this… less badly than it could have? 

Bishop Tony Ramos. Professor Charles Willie. Bishop Arthur Vogel. Each for their own reasons choosing to become part of this story. The story that meant that by the time I was born – in February of 1975 – it was already becoming possible for a woman to become an Episcopal priest. 

I didn’t figure out that that was my path, my calling, Christ’s gift to me, until a whole lot later. But when I did, my church placed no barriers in my way because of who and what I am. 

I am grateful for that, beyond words. I’m sure there are other things I could have done with my life – but I sure love doing this, and it sure feels like what I was made to do. 

And: I wonder. 

I wonder who needs our support, our solidarity, today. In the church; in the wider world. 

Like Bishop Vogel, might we feel called to speak up for something that’s not our cause or our issue, just because it’s the right thing to do?

Like Dr. Willie, might we build a bridge from our own experiences and struggles to empathize with another person or community?

Like Bishop Ramos, might we even be called to risk status, potential, the esteem of our peers, to do the thing that feels necessary for the health of our soul? 

Christ still calls the saints – that’s you! – to building up the body of Christ, and to the work of ministry in the world, advancing God’s agenda of justice, peace, and love of neighbor, near and far. Christ still gives us gifts for the work to which we are called, each and all. 

May we hear. May we respond. 

Let us pray. 

O God of Persistent Grace, you called the Philadelphia Eleven to the priesthood and granted them courage and boldness to respond, thereby opening the eyes of your church to the giftedness and equality of all: grant us so to hear, trust, and follow your Holy Spirit wherever she may lead, that the gifts of all your people may flourish throughout the earth, through Christ our Savior. Amen.

 

Some sources:

Obituary for Bishop Ramos: http://www.evergreeneditions.com/episcopal-new-york-spring-2019?i=581805&p=30&view=issueViewer&fbclid=IwY2xjawEXH3JleHRuA2FlbQIxMAABHcfmm1zGZyhll3xaLqg82181J-tAZUKeTSKMDNTkHTDqd0F_1LDayBOekA_aem_xYaNZV6VN1pvUiuRze_Q9g

The original Episcopal News Service press release: 

https://www.episcopalarchives.org/cgi-bin/ENS/ENSpress_release.pl?pr_number=74200&fbclid=IwY2xjawEVx7xleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABHXXM6SUJdpd5NoQLIaqrVe5xkMO0m5xgFljGcK5mvss2zeL7lF_RfOUobw_aem_jSOw1L_ph-2JeB1tUWhEJw

Charles Willie:  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Charles_V._Willie

Homily, July 28

A homily for All Ages Worship. Readings here!

I wonder what it looks like, to live a life with deep roots in love? 

Let’s talk about that Gospel story for a minute. 

I want to talk about the kid, in the story. Did you notice the kid? … 

Andrew tells Jesus: “There is a boy here who has five barley loaves and two fish. But what are they among so many people?”

Five barley loaves and two fish. 

Does that sound like a little food or a lot of food? … 

It depends, right? How big were the loaves, and how big were the fish?

But it’s probably more food than one kid needs for lunch. 

And I don’t think the disciples just took this kid’s lunch!

I think he was probably bringing it to Jesus as a gift.

Maybe his mom or his dad said, Hey, take some extra bread and fish to the rabbi and his friends.

Maybe they were grateful because Jesus had healed a family member or friend. 

Maybe they were just excited by the things Jesus was saying and doing.

Maybe it was the kid’s idea!

Maybe he said, Hey, mom, I want to go hear Jesus preach! Can I take him some food? He and his friends are always traveling around, I bet they get hungry.

What do you think? Was it the parents’ idea or the kid’s idea?… 

If you had a chance to bring Jesus a snack, what would you bring him? … 

So this boy brings a gift to Jesus and his friends, and what does Jesus do with it? … 

He shares it! He uses it to feed EVERYBODY there!

Now, five loaves and two fish might be a lot for one kid. But it’s not that much for Jesus and his twelve friends. And it’s certainly not very much for 5000 people!

But Jesus takes the bread, and he gives thanks to God the Father, and then he starts giving people bread. And the same with the fish. 

And everybody eats as much as they want. 

And somehow… there is enough. And more than enough! When everybody is finished, there are enough scraps left over to fill TWELVE baskets! 

Have you heard the word miracle? 

A miracle is a word for when something good happens that it’s hard to explain. 

When something good happens that’s hard to explain. 

There are a lot of miracle stories in the Bible.

Some of us might have miracle stories in our lives too.

That could be an important thing to talk about another time.

But right now, I want to go back to the kid in the story, the little boy. 

This miracle started with his gift. With him and his family showing generosity. Showing love. 

I wonder what it looks like, to live a life with deep roots in love? 

In our other reading today the author of this letter, the letter to the Ephesians, says that they hope people who follow Jesus, people like us, will have strong roots in love. 

There are two words there: Rooted and grounded in love.

The word for grounded seems to be a building word – we’re talking about foundations and cornerstones, again.

But the word rooted really is roots in Greek,  like a plant’s roots.

Lots of people back then worked on farms or grew some of their own food in gardens. So they knew about roots! 

So, what are roots, for a plant?… 

What do they do?… 

Are roots important? … 

Here’s a big question: Which is MORE important, the part of the plant you see above ground, or the roots? … 

It depends, right? But a lot of kinds of plants can grow back from the roots. 

Some kinds of plants can grow back from the top part too, if you cut it off – but if they do that – you know the first thing they do? They grow roots. 

So this author hopes that followers of Jesus – people like us – will be rooted in love. 

What love? God’s love for us; Jesus’ love for us. Which is SO BIG – this author says – that it’s hard for us to even understand the breadth and length and height and depth. A Love SO wide and SO long and SO tall and SO deep!!!

That’s how big God’s love is. 

That’s the love that we can put our roots down into. 

And that’s the love we can share with other people. 

This past week eleven youth and young adults, and four not so young adults, went to a city called Racine together for our high school mission trip. 

This is the third year we’ve done a trip a lot like this.

And some things were a lot like other years. 

But a couple of things were different. 

On Friday, we helped out at the Hospitality Center, which serves breakfast and lunch to folks who live in downtown Racine, who can’t always afford to buy their own food. 

We have helped serve lunch before. But this year we had a chance to sit and talk with people for a while. We got to hear their stories, a little bit. We heard some hard and sad things, and we got to laugh together too. 

On Saturday, we worked with a group in Milwaukee that helps refugees make new homes in Wisconsin. 

Refugees are people who have to leave their home country to escape danger. It is hard to be a refugee, and it takes a really really long time to get to make a new home somewhere else. 

In other years we’ve done things like clean an apartment. This year we shopped for things that two families will need. We bought some toys for their kids, too! 

And then we went to a park and shared lunch with several families of refugees from a country called Afghanistan, who have been here for a few years already. 

There were some younger kids, and some teenagers, and some grownups. We talked, and the kids played soccer and frisbee together. 

It was the third year that we worked with this group, but it was the first year we got to meet some of the people who are making new lives here. 

I think those moments when we got to talk with people were really important to our group, this year. 

We’re always worked really hard to help out with any project that we’re asked to do. 

But now we know a few of the people who are part of those communities. We care in a new way. 

Now we can do what we do not just because it’s the right thing to do, but out of love. 

Rooted and grounded in love… 

Does anybody like Star Wars?… 

There’s a line from the movie The Last Jedi that I have been thinking about a lot. 

One of the characters says, “That’s how we’re gonna win. Not by fighting what we hate. But saving what we love.” 

Maybe fighting what you hate and saving what you love puts you on the same battlefield. 

But there is something different, deep down, I think, about operating from love. 

Mind you: Love isn’t just soft and squishy and nice.

Sometimes love has to be brave.

Sometimes love has to be fierce. 

If we love people who can’t always afford food –

If we love people who are unhoused –

If we love refugees who are building new lives in Wisconsin – 

That love will shape how we think and what we do. 

How we give. How we vote. 

I wonder what it looks like, to live a life with deep roots in love? 

A love SO BIG that we can’t even imagine how big it is?… 

Let’s keep wondering about that as we continue … 

Sermon, July 14

Happy Evil Woman Sunday, everybody!

It’s not an official feast of the church; just my name for this day in the lectionary, our cycle of Sunday scripture readings.

Every three years, we get Michal getting the ick about King David, and these two women getting John the Baptist summarily beheaded. Let’s look at both stories briefly, and try to understand what’s going on…  

We’ll start with Michal. Poor Michal! She loved David, once. She is the daughter of Saul, Israel’s first king. Saul gives Michal to David as a wife, to bind David to him. When Saul and David’s relationship breaks down, Michal tricks her father to help David escape.

With David gone, she’s given to another man in marriage, who actually loves her. There’s no hint that David ever cares about Michal beyond her usefulness to him as a sign of Saul’s favor. 

Next comes that long, grueling, tragic civil war between Saul and David that we read about together a couple of weeks ago. Later, with Saul gone, David demands his wife back – as a source of legitimacy for his new kingship. Michal’s new husband, Palti, follows her the whole journey, weeping as he walks. 

Today’s lesson is the last we hear of Michal in the Bible. Michal has been through a lot. David has several other wives by this time. I doubt that she feels that her standing as the daughter of one king and first wife of another is being rightly honored. And she looks out the window and sees David dancing.

Among the many things you can say about David, I think we are to understand that he really really loves God. And here he is fully caught up in ecstatic dance to honor God. This isn’t something he has to do. He’s just caught up in the moment and this is how his devotion and awe are pouring out of him. 

Let’s be clear, though: he is not dancing naked, but he is not wearing a lot of clothing. And Michal looks at him and suddenly it’s the last straw. Partly it’s the lack of modesty; partly I suspect he just looks ridiculous to her. Whatever feelings had lingered: Gone. 

Later, they exchange harsh words. And then they’re done. 

The text says that Michal bore no children from that day forward. I don’t think we’re meant to read that as a punishment from God. I think maybe Michal and David just never chose to be in the same room together again. She probably lived out her life confined to the residence for the king’s wives and concubines, bitter and bored. And I wonder if the Biblical text, which can sound judgmental, actually wants us to feel some pity for Michal. 

Then there are Herodias and Salome. That’s a hair-raising story to read out of the Gospel book on a Sunday morning!

John the Baptist was a prophet who proclaimed that God’s chosen One was coming – and then named Jesus as that One. John precedes Jesus in teaching and preaching; he also precedes Jesus in arrest and execution. That’s our story today. 

There’s some confusion of names, here. Mark calls both mother and daughter Herodias. People do get named after their parents, but a historian of the time, Josephus, says that Herodias had a daughter named Salome who was about the right age for this story. So tradition uses that name for the younger woman, here. 

Salome is probably just a teenager – old enough to be asked to dance for her father and his guests; young enough to ask her mom for advice and to do what her mom tells her. 

Herodias, the mother, is the one primarily responsible for John the Baptist’s death. Although Salome does add the macabre detail of asking for the head on a platter!… 

So who was Herodias? 

Well, she was the sister of two different Herods, and probably married two other Herods. One of whom – this one – was the son of yet another Herod, the Herod who was king when Jesus was born. Reading this family’s history makes your eyes cross, truly. 

The Herodians were the royal family in a fairly limited sense. Under Roman imperial rule the various Kings Herod were pretty limited in what they could do. So they spent their time on scheming and dissipation. 

Josephus, the historian, tells us that Herodias had divorced her previous husband to marry this particular Herod, and he had likewise divorced his first wife.

That’s why John the Baptist has been telling Herod that this situation is a violation of Jewish teachings about marital fidelity.

It seems possible that Herodias and Herod actually loved each other. However, let’s not get mushy: Herodians killed each other all the time. In this extended family, people often protected themselves – or made opportunities for themselves – by offing somebody. 

Herodias probably isn’t worried about another divorce. Rather, she has a reasonable fear that if John gets to Herod, she and her children may just… disappear. 

Herodias didn’t plot to have John killed; this isn’t why she sent Salome to all those dance lessons.

But this opportunity drops into her lap – an opportunity to neutralize a threat, and to get her royal husband to prove his commitment to her – and she seizes it. 

Despite the horror and tragedy here, I can find it in me to feel sorry for Herodias… and for Salome, for whom it may have all seemed like a joke until someone handed her that platter. 

Michal and Herodias have a lot in common.  They have that strange combination of privilege and vulnerability that comes with belonging to powerful men.  They will never go hungry, or lack nice clothes or a warm place to sleep. But that doesn’t make their lives easy. These are people with few choices or opportunities to move towards happiness or self-fulfillment. And that shows up in their lives as dark and difficult emotions and actions. We can, I think, feel some compassion for that. 

Having laid all that out: I’d like to turn to Ephesians, the New Testament letter – epistle – that is the source of our second reading today. It’s a very different text, but there is an intersection point here. Bear with me. 

This passage is kind of a prologue to the letter, beginning to lay out how this author sees life in Christ. And I love the sense of a theology of divine generosity here. 

The author says: We were chosen before the foundation of the world. What an amazing thought.  God’s grace has been freely bestowed upon us in the Beloved, meaning Jesus. Grace, redemption, and forgiveness are lavished upon us. We have been adopted and made heirs, to receive a gracious inheritance as part of God’s family. And so on. 

Reading this text gives me such a sense of just being showered with divine love and grace. It’s an understanding of God’s relationship with humanity through Jesus Christ that I find beautiful and hopeful.

We’ll hear other parts of this letter in the coming weeks. Much of it is lovely, and you may recognize bits that are used in Episcopal worship, like, “There is one Lord, one faith, one baptism,” and “Walk in love, as Christ loved us and gave himself for us…”

But. There’s a part of Ephesians that does not show up in our lectionary or our liturgy – that Episcopalians generally don’t read in church. It’s in chapters 5 and 6, and it’s sometimes called the “household code.” 

Let me say a little, first, about who wrote Ephesians. The letter begins, “Paul, an apostle of Christ Jesus by the will of God, to the saints who are in Ephesus…” But a lot of Biblical scholars think this letter was neither written by Paul, nor to the church in Ephesus. There’s nothing in the letter that seems to speak to a specific church community, so it may have been meant to be passed around many churches. 

Hints in the text suggest that it was written 20 or 30 years after Paul’s death – maybe by someone who was a follower of Paul and learned faith from him. 

However, Ephesians is Paul-ish, even if it’s probably not really the voice of the apostle Paul. The language is similar to Paul when he gets poetic, and it dwells on some of Paul’s core concerns: unity between Jews and Gentiles, getting along with one another, staying focused on Jesus.

About 80% of critical Biblical scholars think that Ephesians was not written by Paul. So it’s not totally clear-cut. Thoughtful readers can disagree on this one. 

But I tend to think this is not Paul. And the household code is a big part of why. 

In the letters that we know are really Paul’s voice, we see hints of someone with pretty egalitarian views – in line with Jesus’ own teaching and actions. I talked a few weeks ago about how “Neither slave nor free, Jew nor Greek, male nor female,” is kind of a core refrain for Paul. And he collaborated with and praised female church leaders, and advocated for the freedom of a formerly enslaved man. 

But the household code in Ephesians offers a different vision, of a fundamentally hierarchical society in which many people’s primary duty and virtue is obedience. First, the text speaks about wives: “A husband is the head of his wife like Christ is head of the church… So wives should submit to their husbands in everything, like the church submits to Christ.”

The text tries to soften this, urging a husband, in turn, to love his wife as Christ loves the church. But nevertheless this is a vision of “Christian” marriage that just sounds like standard marriage in any patriarchal society. What Susan B. Anthony, in the 1876 Declaration of the Rights of Women that we read last week, called “the dogma of the centuries: that woman was made for man.”

Likewise, the household code continues, children should obey their parents “in the Lord, because it is right” (6:1). And as for slaves, “obey your human masters with fear and trembling and with sincere devotion to Christ… Serve your owners enthusiastically, as though you were serving the Lord and not human beings.”  

As with marriage, the text tries to make this mutual: “Masters, treat your slaves in the same way. Stop threatening them, because you know that both you and your slaves have a Master in heaven.” 

There was a lot of ambient anxiety in Roman society about whether slaves were going to turn on their masters. Slave revolts were a constant concern. There was even an ancient Roman saying: “Every slave we own is an enemy we harbor.” 

For this author to baptize that anxiety by saying that Christian slaves should be obedient and enthusiastic!… does not sit well with me. Nor does the endorsement of the kind of rigid gender roles and limitations on the autonomy of women that distorted and blighted the lives of Michal and Herodias… and so many others, over the millennia. 

Fundamentally: Bidding wives, children, and slaves to be obedient to their rightful masters was not a Christian vision of society. 

It was just… society. 

A few months ago, our resident historian of the Roman Empire, Leonora Neville, told our confirmation class about how quickly the fresh ideas of Christianity were tamed and conformed to the standards of the surrounding culture – first-century Judea and the Roman Empire.

Over the decades, Christianity made itself palatable enough to ease persecution and eventually become the religion of Rome. 

If this text was indeed written a few decades after Paul’s death, it fits in to that trajectory nicely, as it brings Christian language to bear to justify and defend the cultural status quo. 

A status quo, mind you, that must have been under some threat! If somebody is writing about how Christian wives and slaves should be obedient and submissive, it’s probably because some Christian wives and slaves have started to say, Hey, if we’re all one in Christ Jesus, how come you get to make the rules?… 

I want to conclude by saying three things about reading Scripture – reading the Bible. First: It is necessary and important to read Scripture, to read the Bible, in conversation with itself. 

The Bible is not one coherent thing; it doesn’t have one perspective or tell one story. Imagine sitting down with Michal and Herodias and Paul and the author of Ephesians – and hey, maybe Susan B. Anthony too – for lively conversation about whether women’s primary duty in life is really obedience to men. This kind of work, exploring where texts connect or clash, is an important part of reading Scripture responsibility and thoughtfully. 

Second, it’s OK to pick favorites! Be responsible about how you do it; try not to pluck things fully out of context; try to pay attention to the big themes – there are some – and let that shape how you weigh particular passages. But every faith tradition and every faithful reader of Scripture has some kind of “canon within the canon” – meaning, there are parts of the Bible that are more important to us than others. We don’t weigh it all equally or read it all the same way. 

I do really love the first couple of chapters of Ephesians – those are some core texts for me – and: I feel totally comfortable setting aside the household code. These voices were human beings, just like us; they got some things right, by the grace of God; they got some things wrong, for all kinds of reasons. We are all mixed bags. You can pick your favorite parts of the Bible. 

Third, we don’t read Scripture alone. We read it in community; we read it in conversation with tradition and history and, hopefully, with people who read it with different eyes; we read it, thanks be to God, with the help of the Holy Spirit, who keeps opening our minds and hearts to deeper wisdom and new understandings of how God has been at work in humanity’s story and is at work in our stories, individual and together, today. 

 

Sources:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Epistle_to_the_Ephesians

https://www.pas.rochester.edu/~tim/study/household code eph.pdf